Another year begins

Posted in Life Profundities, Random thoughts by dave on December 31, 2008 1 Comment

It’s that time again – time to “ring in the new year” and celebrate the kickoff of the next 365 days. There will be champagne, noisemakers, food and silly hats. There will be counting and ball-dropping and kissing. With any luck, it’ll be the last year whose double-consecutive-zeros appear in countless pairs of novelty glasses.

There are plenty of bloggers (among others) out there recapping 2008, and probably an equal number making predictions, listing resolutions or setting goals for 2009. Looking back at past DaveRea.com new year’s posts in close proximity to the last three new-year’s celebrations, it’s interesting to observe just how life has evolved.

In lieu of listing all the ways my life has changed over the last year – there are 12 months’ worth of archives to account for that – I’m curious what you see when you look back on 2008. How were you different the last time you tuned in the Times Square new-year’s broadcast? How do you think you might change between now and the final ten-second countdown to 2010?

sharing Thanksgiving memories

Posted in Experiences, Life Profundities by dave on November 27, 2008 No Comments yet

I think I’ve told Kelly the stories at just about every winter holiday, but – to me at least – they never get old. For some reason, whenever I find my hands coated in cinnamon, sugar and bits of apple, or whenever I feel the texture of floured dough and a rolling pin beneath my hands, it’s just like I’m there. There are certainly stories I tell when – this time around – she rolls her eyes and sighs as if to say “here we go again”, but never my stories about Mom.

As we stood at the counter together last night, peeling and slicing our way through a bag of McIntosh apples for Thanksgiving pies, I recounted the story once again of how my Mom and Aunt used to compete to see who could peel the longest thread of apple skin. They’d pick out the biggest apple they could find, and deftly slide their paring knives around in a meticulous spiral. There were no potato peelers here! Slowly, a pile of ribbonlike apple peel would appear on the countertop, until someone finally exclaimed… “eergh!” as the cut end of the ribbon fell to the counter. We’d all laugh and one sister would congratulate the other – and the piemaking would continue.

Sadly, I never learned the art of marathon apple peeling, though I doubt I’d have the patience for it anyway. But there is another favorite childhood tradition I can share with Kelly in the present-tense. One of the reasons I loved watching (and, in my own small-fry way, helping) my Mom bake her pies was, oddly enough, leftover crust. What didn’t go into transforming her pies into utter works-of-art went back into the bowl … and that’s where I came in. We’d toss some fresh flour on the counter, and hit that tablespoon-or-three of crust dough with the rolling pin. It usually ended up about the size of a saucer, with the thickness of a Christmas cut-out cookie. But what came next was the real magic.

Mom always kept a shaker of cinnamon-sugar in the spice rack, and after brushing a little butter or egg white over my newly-flattened masterpiece, we’d apply a liberal dousing of crunchy-sweet flavor over the top. Along with the pie, my doughy little confection would go into the oven, to emerge (a looonnng ten minutes later) as an inimitable sweet treat.

Well, almost inimitable – because last night, after we assembled our crumb-top apple pie, we managed to have just enough crust left over for a little trip down memory lane.

This Thanksgiving, I’m grateful for memories like these, and for a loving family to share them with. I’m sure there are thousands more, shrink-wrapped just beneath the surface, waiting for the right touch, the right smell, the right place to bring them out. I’m thankful for those, too.

Over the Transom

Posted in Car Stuff, Life Profundities by dave on November 22, 2008 No Comments yet

It wasn’t that long ago that our family owned a boat. We’re not exactly “pleasure boating” types, so it wasn’t the sexiest boat on the lake, but it got us out to fish, water ski and cruise the Finger Lakes in 17 feet of aluminum-skinned, charcoal-carpeted luxury. It was comfortable, functional and reliable, and as aluminum boats go, I’ve yet to see one that looked better.

We did have a few harrowing experiences with our 17-foot Smokercraft, though. One in particular comes to mind when I think about the word “bailout” … a beautiful sunny day that found us going through our normal launching routine at the Honeoye Lake state-run boat launch. We removed the canvas straps that held the boat to the trailer, dropped and primed the 90-horse outboard, unlocked the winch and disconnected the trailer lights. Moments later, the boat was in the water and I started the engine to back it off the trailer. And then I stopped. Something wasn’t right. The boat was sitting a little too low in the water, and all of a sudden the engine’s exhaust – which vented through an above-the-water port while not in gear – was making a bubbling sound!

Lifting up the canvas flap that covered the battery box and transom, I found … a lot of water. Turns out no one had remembered to install the plug during our hasty preparations. Fortunately, the boat was still winched to the trailer, so all we needed to do was pull it back up onto the pavement and let it drain.

More…

Zwei Jahre

Posted in Life Profundities by dave on July 6, 2008 1 Comment

It’s been a busy weekend! In the space of three days, we’ve managed to traverse most of central New York, from home to Hammondsport to Canandaigua to Syracuse and back again. Eating seemed to be the primary theme – whether or it was at a cookout at my parents’ place, or a lakeside dinner for two at Snug Harbor, breakfast-in-bed on Saturday morning, a wedding reception for Kelly’s [newly married] childhood friends on Saturday, or a delicious brunch spread at the in-laws’ place this morning.

Amid all the merriment and festivities (and eating), there hasn’t been much time for posting, but I can’t let it go by without at least a mention – Tuesday being our second wedding anniversary and all! Yep, that’s right – we made it around the calendar and back again a second time.

Happy Anniversary to us!

(Hrmmm… I guess I could have hinted at it via S.M.T. by reviewing Stan Getz’s meat-and-potatoes Jazz album Stanniversary, but that would be both excessively obscure and a little cheesy…)

In lieu of any posts on Saturday…

Posted in Experiences, Life Profundities by dave on November 18, 2007 3 Comments

…I opted to spend some time out in the woods:

Me and 2 Does

After 11 hunting seasons spent in the woods, all that practice and preparation and anticipation and frusteration finally paid off! Of course it helps, as shuttle astronaut Mike Mullane put it, to be in a “target-rich environment”! In this case, a friend from work was gracious (or sympathetic? or both?) enough to welcome me to his nothing-less-than-spectacularly-beautiful property for an opening-morning hunt.

More…

unintentional emulation

Posted in Experiences, Life Profundities by dave on July 22, 2007 No Comments yet

Chuck Kimmerle: An excellent landscape/fine-art photographer:

http://www.chuckkimmerle.com/

When I look at Chuck’s photos – especially those of old farm machinery and agricultural structures – I almost get a sense of deja-vu in recalling photos that I’ve taken in the past. Growing up a photo-brat on the dividing line between sprawling suburbia and endless farmland, there were ample subjects to be found. Even though I went to school at a district that would later be the first school in the area to issue a laptop to every student, you could still count on getting stuck behind a combine or a hay wagon bulging with baled straw when autumn came around.

I remember shooting roll after roll of T-Max, exploring the collapsed barns and abandoned farm machines South of our home. The inner workings of these things and places weren’t as interesting to me as their appearance – they simultaneously symbolized livelihood and obsolescense, and juxtaposed the ever-advancing (and moving, and growing, and adapting) agriculture industry with the embodiment of the casualties of progress. I relive the experience every time I smell old grease mingling with galvanized steel, or feel the oddly smooth texture of oil-seasoned wrought iron that has finally yielded to rust.

More recently, a few of my photographs have evoked the same feelings – and seeing Chuck’s “Abstracts/Miscellaneous” section reminded me of one in particular, which I shot as the sun was setting on the first day of Kelly and my recent annversary trip:

Elks Lodge

Even though many of the windows of the Canandaigua Elks Lodge are boarded up, and the tarnish on the building’s exterior is evidence of the years it has seen, the neon sign presses on proclaiming the endurance of the place – just as the times embodied in images like this persist despite ingenuity and advancement, reminding us occasionally to slow down, and pay our respects to all that has come before us to bring us where we are.

4 seasons later

Posted in Life Profundities by dave on July 3, 2007 1 Comment

It’s hard to believe a year has come and gone… But surreal as it may seem, this past weekend Kelly and I celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary. The weather was perfect, the plans panned out just right, and all things considered I think we set the bar at a good level for anniversaries-to-come…

Photos are posted… Wild Hearts Cruise

Note for future reference: As seasickness-proof as I thought I was, I was no match for the Wild Hearts catamaran… As evidenced by my two trips below deck! But gastric difficulties aside, the cruise really was an unforgettable time. The boat was amazing, the crew was awesome, the sunset was beautiful, and I had a lovely (and also mildly seasick) bride to share it with!

What could be better? I guess I’ve got 363 days to figure that out…

Just in case you were wondering…

…when Keith and Alex were finally going to get married, wonder no more! For new photos have been posted to the gallery:

Balan/Tabakman Wedding

Enjoy!

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